To add or not to add and EX on facebook?
9:31 am in Facebook by Preaching Knight
Facebook has done wonders in connecting us to people we may have forgotten long ago. The cravings of curiosity push us to search and click on profiles that normally we have tossed into oblivion. The proliferation of strangers requesting addition to our list of friends make it easy to conceal those we would be afraid to admit to a present romance. Secret conversations, deleted messages and private settings characterize these concealed visits to the past. Have we entered an era of virtual promiscuity? What repercussions have we allowed to creep into our lives? Does this strengthen or weaken our commitment to our present Beau? I suggest precaution, these virtual temptations pose as present day Pandora’s boxes that may invite evil we may be unable to control. The truth lies in the fact that time and seasons change people. What we have dreamed to have in the past and not attained is not guaranteed to be found when we try to reconnect or continue a lost flame. Most of what has been lost is lost for a reason. If we were meant to be, let the normal and natural course of events finds its way into our present. If it was meant to be, we need not make things happen. In the meantime, only if you know where you stand and are stable emotionally and intellectually, keep them for what you have added for…just friends…
Very well said Mr. Preaching Knight… I think adding your ex on facebook is not such a bad idea at all. Facebook’s best attribute is to help you reconnect with people who are and who were once important to you (both old and new) …To catch up with the good old times wont hurt at all (of course sometimes it depends on how the relationship was back then) ….
Thank you very much Ms. Ellen and as you have intimated precaution and wisdom is to be used at all times…